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Talk dirty to me...
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Talk dirty to me...  Dirty talk is a great way to get your partner hard, and a greater way to get them to come hard. "Come over here and fuck me hard" "I love how big your cock gets when I suck on it" "You can have me any way you want..." "Where do you want to come?" What did you feel when you read that? A little bit turned on? Yes? Then good, that's the whole point. This week I was talking with someone about talking dirty. For me, dirty talk is an essential part of my sex life and something I really enjoy. I consider myself fairly expressive and don't hesitate much to say what feels good, what I like and want, and finds it heightens the pleasure for both me and my partner. I think it provides a good opportunity to push back some of the boundaries you might otherwise feel in the bedroom. So the question then becomes, how do you do it well? If done right and at the right time, dirty talk is pretty damn hot. I find it's not necessarily what you say but also how you say it. Dirty talk can be not-so-dirty, like "I want you so bad" and "You make me so hot" and the like. These are great ways to start out talking dirty without necessarily being vulgar. Using swear or dirty words is really optional depending on what you're used to. As you start, stick with words that you know and are comfortable with. You can always add new words and phrases here and there over time as you get more comfortable with it. Sometimes the most simple phrases can have some awesome effects. "I love it when you do that" "You're so sexy" "It drives me crazy when you look at me that way" "Please don't stop" Personally though, I like it like I like my sex, with a bit of an edge. Preferring to use some of the more vulgar words and phrases known to man is a choice, and as long as you're comfortable with it, then so be it. "I hate it when people tell me swearing isn't necessary. I'm fucking vulgar, not stupid. I know it isn't fucking necessary!" One of the great things about talking dirty is using it as a means to describe what's going on during sex, how good it feels, what you're going to do and what you want your partner to do to you. Saying it while looking someone directly in the eyes adds a little something extra as well. "Lie back so I can ride you hard" "Suck my hard cock baby" "Faster! Harder!" "Come for me, give it to me now" And keep in mind, dirty talk doesn't just mean using words. Moans, groans, sighs, whispers, screams, and gasps can all have the same effect as words. It's really all meant to convey what you're feeling. You can be submissive and quiet, or domineering and animated, and pretty much anything in between. The point is to communicate. Last but not least, as you think about talking dirty, also ask your partner how they feel about it. I've been pleasantly surprised to have guys ask me if I mind being called a bitch, or slut in the bedroom. Personally, I can take it and don't mind a bit, but some people can't and do take it personally. That's perfectly ok. A good rule to follow: ask and tell. And just because you call me a in bed doesn't mean you get to call me that outside the bedroom. I will seriously fuck you up if you do. So are you in the mood to talk dirty? I hope so... Enjoy! |
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1 post 5/16/2013 1:47 pm |
100% true!!!
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That is a great post. Many people do not realize how much cummunicating enhances the experiance. I believe its about 75% if not more of all the excitment. Just a few words, fuck me hard babe, suck that bitch, lick me good and even some encouragement, Yea, that it babe, you do it sooo good. Again, great post
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1 post 5/25/2013 3:45 am |
Damn......you sure make it hard to not wanna fuck your mouth.....message us
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I like dirty talk. "You like that?" for example opens up the communication for a response, dirty or not. It can get kicked up a notch by saying, "do you like how I'm ________?" Yes, continue, or change the pace and ask again. Most people are to shy or embarrassed to ask for what they want. Dirty talk with questions from your partner asks for a response. "Yeah baby, cum on my tits" is hot and gets you want you want, or don't want, (referring to your other post about what's kinky vs watching porn and what you think is normal).
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