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When you look at you.
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When you look at you. Well I hadn't added to my blog in a while and thought that it was about time that I did. I was reading a post in a group I am in about what you find attractive in other people. Alot of very good things were addressed that I agree with for the most part when I think about what attracts me to men/women. But my question is: What do you see as attractive on YOU. Do you see yourself as atractive and no I do not necessarily mean the outer you. Personally I am very selfconcious so I really had to think about this one. When I look at myself (the outer me) I do not see very much. But when I look inside me ..... personality, deep caring, love, strength, compassion, extemely loyal, personality, reserved (comes across standoffish/snobbish unintentionally) and respectful. Personally I think too many people go by the outter person and do not give the inner person a chance to be seen or come out. Very sad really. Let me know what you see in yourselves. Blushin |
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10/5/2008 10:40 am |
Good one Blushin, I read this Blog when you first wrote it and I waited until I was in a better frame of mind to write, as at the time I was very down mentally and emotionally and I probably would of wrote something not so good about me. What I see on the outside and the inside is probably the same, as I believe that what you feel inside gets projected on the outside. And I feel pretty good on the inside, I have come to terms with me for all the good the bad and the ugly. I am not perfect to say the least, but I am a true honest person and I find it very difficult to hold back my feelings or thoughts or emotions (as I am ruled by them), filled with lots of love, happiness, compassion, respect, sense of humour, dirty mind, and I am a very strong person this could mean = bold, loud, expressive, passionate, I am friendly outgoing person who enjoys meeting people and I believe that shows on the outside of me. My favourite part of me is my mind, where would I be without her? There are many good and not so good things about me depending on who is looking or really seeing me, all I know is that all I can be is me and the rest of the world can like that or not, I am not here on this earth to try and win a popularity contest. So if a person can see what I see then a friendship will happen all on its own. I am just way too tired to try and get anyone to like me, it doesn't bother me if someone doesn't like me or something about me because I am sure I am feeling the same way about you too, no one is perfect and I can see the good things and not so good things about everyone, it just depends on how much I want it to put any negative energy into it, I find it better in life to see the good things and try not to put so much importance on the negative traits of others, everyone has something shining about them. Plus I am always changing a little bit with each year for the better, it takes time, experience, and years to get to that great place where we once were as very young children, and by the time we get there we are wearing depends/diapers again. Like they always say youth is wasted on the young. Shell (not perfect but I like me anyway)
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I agree on your analysis of people look at outer person and immediately they form opinions about others based on their bias mindset. It comes in many forms and partly judging a person from his or her skin color also is one aspect. I have experienced it many a time, even on this forum with many people doesn't even bother to curtesy to reply and discard you when they see pics. BUT having said that, there are many people who really judge you by getting to know you a little.. evaluate things by what they hear, feel, observe after a brief interaction.. So, all is not lost!! Me, personally is a person who sees things as a half open door and not a half closed!!
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