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An Amazing Journey Ends  

Februus_3rd 66M
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3/3/2013 7:54 am
An Amazing Journey Ends


At exactly 6:50am on the 1st of December the wheels of the transatlantic flight touched down at Dublin Airport.

It was the end of one long amazing journey and supposed to be the beginning of a new one.

Exactly when the journey started is lost in the mists of time, but it was a comment on an Australian blog that first brought there two bloggers to each others notice. Slowly, over time, a few exchanged comments, a few supporting e-mails, the occasional chat and sometimes weeks with no contact, these two bloggers got to know each other better and better until they decided that they would have to meet to see if what they sensed on line would be true in real life.

Now illness and an accident and lack of passport and never having flown before were all obstacles to be overcome for her if she were to fulfill her dream, but still she stepped of that plane that Saturday morning for the 19 days that would cement the relationship...

To say that it had been love at first sight would be incorrect, in truth it had been love long before that. Exactly when it hard to say as he had placed so many barriers around his heart following the breakup of his marriage that she had managed to slip under his radar, yet for her she had spent the previous year telling her family and friends that she had finally met the man she wanted to spend the rest of her life with and was moving to Ireland.

Well the 19 days were like magic, both were happier then they had ever been in their lives. True love and true happiness was shared for those 19 days... many who do not use the internet cannot understand how you can fall in love on line, but then chatting with video for hours every night is like having someone in the room with you, the and friends would say "hello" as they dropped in and out.

It is impossible to capture the joy and happiness and excitement shared, whether visiting archaeological sites, old castle, or monastic sites, or even opening the freezers in the local supermarkets. There was a certain "joie de vivre" about the simplest things in life, and some "je ne sais quoi" in their interactions.... and of course a little learning of Québécois Francais, for he would have to meet her family in Canada some day soon.

Cupid shoots strange arrows sometimes and we have no control of whom we fall in love with, but this was special, everyone who met her knew immediately, she even formed her own special bond with his . They bought and exchanged commitment rings (see how perfect, they both took the same ring size), the world was turned upside down, all they needed was each other, nothing else mattered, no obstacle was too big not to be overcome, no obstacle? Nothing mattered except that they be together.

When the 19 days were over, they bid farewell, but only for a short time, she was returning to Canada to sort out a few things and return to Ireland, winters in Florida sun, spring and autumn in Canada and and Irish summer were the long term plans... her family and friends were completely behind her, they could see a happiness that, it seems, she had never experienced before in her life, as could his family, friends and his .

Safely home and Christmas and New Year over, she set about making the arrangements, which of course were more difficult than it seemed on the surface, but there would be a way to make everything happen. They last spoke on 17th January, would it be the end of February or the start of March, it was to matter little. The next day the phone went unanswered, the text messages went to delivery "pending" and a call to her resulted in her being found dead on the couch, still dressed in the clothes that she had worn on her monthly trip to the doctors the day before. Dead was sudden, or instant and painless - and so passed from this world a former blogger at the tender age of 52
silk_petal_rose 60F  
2363 posts
8/21/2013 4:44 pm

 OH my goodness.
silky...


rm_4jasmine2 53F
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6/5/2013 2:37 pm

 I now understand what you referred to in my blog regarding losing a special love. What a moving story and I feel so terribly for you - At least you know you made her last days the happiest of her life.
Life is short, I must never forget that! Thanks for the reminder.
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sugarcane221 61F

5/28/2013 2:11 am

 that is a very moving story,touched my heart. Thank you for sharing that with us. sugar


GerK321Cum 66M
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3/22/2013 4:20 am
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Thank you - it is so sad that she never got to do many of the things she dreamed of, but at least she did get to Ireland and was as happy as she had ever been - it's just nice to know that she died happy.
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GerK321Cum 66M
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3/11/2013 8:35 pm
    Quoting sexysixties2:
    What you and she had was so special....the smiles on your faces....the happiness in your eyes.

    One day the memories will be less hard to bear my friend.
You cheated and saw the video - thanks - for once I knew what was true happiness, and I never thought it existed... I always thought contentment was what brought happiness, but I learned something new, the absolute sharing where nothing else matters - money, house, car, clothes - so long as we had each other we would make do.
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GerK321Cum 66M
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3/11/2013 8:30 pm
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Thanks QB, this has changed my life I think, who knows what the future holds... just remember that one may not be around tomorrow to take that photograph, capture that memory or do that extraordinary thing... never put off what's possible on the basis of doing it another time....
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GerK321Cum 66M
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3/11/2013 8:27 pm
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It's a story that could not be written and I have still not worked out if it was more cruel on her for what she never experienced, or on me for no longer having that opportunity - and of course her brother, two daughters and 9 month old grandchild who welcomed me into their family even though I met them yet.
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GerK321Cum 66M
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3/7/2013 9:04 pm

 It's so nice to listen to the video of her visit here... the enthusiasm in her voice whether seeing where Bono lived, and ancient burial mount, a railway journey by the sea, old monastic ruins and the odd old castle... to hear comments like "humongous", "beautiful", "I don't wanna go home" and "that was the best day of my life" - yet it's the same joie de vie and enthusiasm she showed when opening the freezer in the local shops - one must understand that she had never been as happy or as enthusiastic for life as when she was planning on moving to Ireland... yet to have her future so cruelly taken away from her just as her world was opening up.... sad I know but she got to live so many dreams in the last days of her life...
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sexysixties2 106F
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3/4/2013 3:28 am

 What you and she had was so special....the smiles on your faces....the happiness in your eyes.

One day the memories will be less hard to bear my friend.
"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


Februus_3rd 66M
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3/3/2013 8:00 am

 I am reminded that I am not the first and will not be the last to loose a loved one under tragic circumstances and way before their time - but I now have a new understanding for both true love and happiness and the loss that others have suffered in the past.

I will return from Canada with her ashes, as was her request, and her passport, cause that was what brought us together, and the commitment rings that we exchanged will lie side by side once again.


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