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The He said/She Said Whatevah!!
The He said/She Said Whatevah!! My roomie & i continue to be amazed at the he said/she said garbage that takes place here. It reminds me of some of the stuff in high school that people did...ummm..cept i never associated with any of those individuals. That sorta applies here. I've said before that i pretty much keep a low profile. I find that keeps me from getting caught up in whatever people have to say, or do. My response of whatever people think of me is none of my business does generally apply. Unfortunately, even without associating with many, the he said/she said still happens. It seems to encompass myself, my roomie & Mr TC (my tall commodity boyfriend...yep...said boyfriend...sounds fairly juvenile, but what else are ya gonna call someone that you're exclusively dating???). Where is this going??? Well, roomie & i met somebody for a late lunch the other day. End result? He mentions somebody else im'd him, BEFORE he met us, mentioning about said lunch. Now, roomie & i did the basic WTF??? How did this person even KNOW about the lunch. Even more..WHY does this person EVEN care???? Some background would be the individual that did the im'ing previously had im'd my roomie asking if i was dating Mr TC and commenting that he was a heartbreaker. Of course my roomie advised me of said im. I'd do the same for her & she knows that. I then relayed that info to Mr TC, who, rightly so, was more than a bit annoyed. He let this individual know at the halloween party that the info had gotten back to him. His response? Yes, he's previously had other sex partners. I mean, my gawd...he's 46 yrs old. I'm fairly certain i'm not the first. Mebbe the BEST, but not the first..LOL. Anyway, he comments he'd gladly stop all contact with individuals, if i wanted him to. Nope...not my style. I'm not going to ever tell you who you can have as friends. Now, if that friendship included sex, THAT'S a different story, cuz i don't share. NOPE! Anyway, back to the 1st part of this lovely story. Turns out the person we met for lunch was actually the individual that let this other person know. Roomie & i are incredibly annoyed about the garbage. She finds out more of the story from the person that supposedly im'd the party we met for lunch. Basically, he has given the impression that perhaps more was going to happen, or did happen. I'm not sure of the specifics & i honestly don't care at this point. It appears to be just more of the "i really have no life, so i'm going to live vicariously thru others" syndrome. With a tad bit of the napoleon complex thrown in for good measure. Whatevah! Now, i'm not saying i won't associate/go to a meet & greet sometime. Do anything different than i currently do. It's just a tad bit of info about the two parties involved that's tucked away in mah lit tle pea nut ty hayed. Unfortunately, as Mr TC says, i suffer from Kelly Bundy Syndrome. So, there's prolly something that's been pushed out to allow for this info. Mebbe my mom's name??? ROFL |
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yeppers, seems some can't be happy for others finding a "special" someone without adding their "twist" on things.. sad.. very very sad in my opinion (yes i know they are like a$$holes but i'm entitled to have mine too). oh btw i prefer to call my beau my "manfriend" at 46 nearly 47 it seems much more appropriate then "boy"friend.. lol besides he's NO boy ~wink wink~. congratulations to you and Mr TC, the bestest of wishes to you both. he's a sweetie someone i'm glad to be able to call a friend, and damn unlike many here he's trustworthy too.. ~smiles~
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no_tyme.. darn it get the head out of that guys a$$ ... LOL i won't ask what "Dylithium Crystals" are cuz i'm ascared to find out... lol
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11/25/2007 2:06 am |
I'm so lost.....and I think I like it that way, miss u ladies luv from your favorite sassy
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