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Ladies and the RED X's  

Linc1912 47M
369 posts
1/27/2013 4:38 pm

Last Read:
5/9/2013 3:36 am
Ladies and the RED X's
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Ladies this entry is for you!

Ladies who log in get an email, then BEFORE you read the SPELLCHECKED,
DECENT SENTENCE STRUCTURED,
WITTY,
NON CAVE-MAN message that sets before you, do you go look at the profile? Cmon-fess up! I know your PERVing.

Do you read his fantasizes? His Astrological sign?
Do you scroll down to look at a guys RED X compatibility chart?
Is it a deal-breaker?
Do you heed its words?
Do you just like to see the red and the green interact?

I know some of us guys dont bother to read that far down (if at all). I mean HEY.. your close, and looking for dick- its a match made in heaven right!?

I once got emailed by a lady where almost ALL the catagories were marked with an RED X. It was like Pizza hut delivery man crossing a mine-field covered in chicken wire. Basically it was her giving me her opinion on a blog post.. which was fine. But when I asked her did she look at that chart down there.. she said No, I dont look at that thing- its rarely correct!

So, as a precaution, I always scroll down to that area just to see how much of an uphill battle I may be in for!
~Linc was here.~
singlenhappy6 56F
58 posts
1/28/2013 7:00 pm

 oh, and I ALWAYS perv on their profiles!
Love is an emotion, commitment is a decision and monogamy had nothing to do with either. ~ME


singlenhappy6 56F
58 posts
1/28/2013 6:59 pm

 I get emails all the time from guys when the compatibility chart red Xs my age, my distance and my race...Obviously they aren't paying attention. But I do ask if they realize that I'm an old white woman from Timbuktu...they always say they don't care.
Love is an emotion, commitment is a decision and monogamy had nothing to do with either. ~ME


007sexy40plus 58F  
7589 posts
1/27/2013 6:53 pm

 The red X's are there for a reason "compatibility" And yes they are a deal breaker, because if a guy has a red x in the distance then I am too far for him and vice versa, If there is a red x in the race box for me and he is a white guy, I am to think he does not like black women, if there is red x in smoking and body type and age then I cant be bothered. I think it would cut down on a lot of time wasted emails if guys read the profile and paid attention to those red X's. However if the site is having glitches it would be a common courtesy for a guy to write and ask about the x's so that they don't make a fool of themselves by being rude. Case in Point. a guy IM'd me and said "hi, and then he came back with, "oh crap I'm sorry but you are looking for men 35/36, I'm 52" My profile says that the guy should be at least 35/36 and above but not over 59 and when I corrected him he called me a bitch. Huh?!! I told him he was a dumb ass and should have read the profile right in the first place. Has he read the compatibility section he would have seen that there was a green check mark in the boxes and would have avoided the confrontation. I also agree with both of the other responses before me.
I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


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