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When is Enough Enough?
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When is Enough Enough? So I was chatting online with a good friend yesterday...seems she has a problem...the guy she's seeing is getting very attached to her and she's getting a bit uncomfortable with that. He has recently started telling her he loves her and wants to be with her always...He's even intimated that they should leave their spouses and get together...she says that just freeks her out! She likes him and all and they have great sex...but she's not at all sure she wants to even entertain that thought. She'd like to continue with things the way they are and still see other people. She went to a friends wedding and hooked up with a guy she knows for the weekend. Incredible sex she said...but when she told her at home guy about it he got very quiet...she asked him if he was mad at her and he said no, but his body language said otherwise...that did nothing to help their relationship. The other day they had a talk after some particularly good sex and the topic was whether they should be exclusive to each other. He of course wanted that very much...said he worried about her safety...hmmm sounds like jealousy to me??...She wasn't so sure about the exclusitivity part... So my question and hers too is when is enough enough...I mean if he wants her to be with him and him alone and she doesn't want that does that mean they should agree to part ways? Or does she just put up with it? I'd say she has a choice to make...either she's his and his alone or she's not. Then he has to decide if he can live with her decision. If he can then fine if not then he must respect her decision and move on. Nasty maybe but true. So that brings me to your input...what do you think? Is exclusivity the way to go or should she be free to do as she likes. Not an easy answer but one that bears some discussion... |
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I agree with you. Each person needs to make the decision for themselves. She needs to deside if she wants to be with him alone or not. Then he has to decide if he can stand by her with what she wants or he needs to move on. I don't think it's nasty at all. It's the way relationships work. She should do whatever is right for her whether that is to be free to be with who she wants or to be exclusive to the guy. ~It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved! Be Good to those around you! Blade
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3/28/2007 9:36 am |
TBH, for me, leave the spouse irrespective of what she does with anyone else. Cheating is cruel and makes a mockery of the vows they took (that assumes he doesn't know). If she isn't happy with being exclusive, from his reaction, it sounds like out is the best way. Mind you, I would love to know how she finds time for more than one, never mind a spouse, a bit on the side and potentially one other !! I already need 100 hours in the day and my beau is Stateside !!!  Mistress Innuendo Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!
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I agree. She only has 2 choices. Neither one, however, is free to actually make a commitment, so I think that keeping things as they are, is the best. obviously, if she wanted to commit, she would. "Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened." 
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3/28/2007 1:29 pm |
i have a problem like that right now but i know i'm being unreasonable. i have this guy the one i wrote my first post about i get so jealous if he wants to speak to anyone but me. i'm not like it with anyone else, in fact it's got so bad i told him to take a hike today. i think yr friend should get out i wouldn't put a nutter like me on anyone xx
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